Maybe this time

Two weeks ago, I did room boards for a particular living room built around a gray sectional. This week, I'm back, still unable to tell you about the house, but having played and put together room boards for a linen sectional. Because this is what I do when I cannot sleep. Sometimes the excitement causes an inability to sleep.

 

This one got a big "no." Because it's too fancy and impractical. It is not Rock Hudson or Doris Day. Maybe some Elizabeth Taylor with some Nate Berkus. I suwannee, who would not want to have an old fashioned in this room at the end of the day. Especially with a roaring fire and Charlie Hunnam.

Set this party off

Updated: my cousin just reminded me that her father, a Wilson, married an Allbritton, her mother, who is also from the same original group of Allbrittons as my wasband. Our Wilson-Allbritton wedding invitations were a joke because of this. That Wilson-Allbritton union went belly-up as well. From the source: "I would devote a whole page to explaining why Wilsons and Allbrittons CANNOT marry....like a chemical reaction, the chemicals are initially attracted to each other and create a really pretty color...then explode after seven minutes of chemically bonding." Because, people, this is science, which is always true.

If you want to add to your understanding what it means to live as perfectly imperfect (to augment what I clearly have to teach you about it), go read this blog at Momastery. Joy unto me. Because you know that split second between when you realize you are about to spill something that is going to be difficult to clean up and the moment it actually happens? That mood-altering moment between oh sh*t! and sonofabitch! I exist in that space, almost entirely, from head-off-pillow to head-on-pillow. And I'm not afraid of it at all, because I do it boldly, assertively, and with supreme confidence that more often that not, I will not make that big a mess.

In the gray area

One of the blogs I read religiously chronicled, among many enlightening and hilarious parenting adventures, her struggle to adopt a child, after birthing three. She was convinced there was another baby out there for her to love, and she was denied by every agency and every country at every turn. But then her sister got pregnant with her first child, and she realized that her nephew was the baby she felt a calling to have and love. Plus, it was not as expensive for her.

 

This week, I'm leaning toward renting when this mothereffing house sells. In a big complex, which makes me uneasy about sending the boys outside to play when I just cannot take the noise anymore they need fresh air. We do not have high school plans for Jake yet, and the LAST thing I want to do is buy now and need to get out in less than two years. So renting seems safest, and if I rent on the SJS bus route and save myself $250 a month from after care, fiscally prudent.

Sweet dreams are made of this

Y'all. I think I have a project. It's not my house, because I'm still on the market. And it's not my future house, because I have no idea where I am going. But there is a house that belongs to someone who likes and trusts me and my visions and is in the process of buying a fixer-upper.

 

And I have more vision that I have space in which to utilize it. So here are some sneak peaks and what inspires me for the future of each space. Not all of these have been floated by the potential homeowners yet, but there are limitless possibilities for every bit of this house. 

 

I am trying to make a convincing argument for why the front door should stay. Even without those atrocities of window treatments, the house would lose very little privacy. The front door opens into a foyer that looks straight into the backyard, and the house is far enough from the road that no passersby or neighbors would be able to see your naughty bits if you were going to get clothes out of the dryer, unless you stood in the door and shook 'em.

Pictures of You

Tradition dictates that my kids have to take a picture in front of my blue door on the first day of school every year. So, happy 2013-14!

Seventh grade means you need a hairSTYLE and not a hairCUT. Fifth grade means you make a deal to download an app on your Nabi if you let your hairgirl pick your haircut.

The Story

Here it is. In the deepest, darkest, most fearsome places of my imagination, I could not imagine I would be here, standing upright, on this day. Three-hundred-sixty-five days ago, my husband packed a bag and left our home, never to return as a husband. The observance of that this weekend was compounded by the big fight that usually erupts between two people who have a lot to fight about because the stars aligned and marked the calendar for that day to be a bad day until the end of time. As in, yesterday morning at 9 AM I was standing in front of my fridge reading the label on my bottle of rosè, comparing it to the contents on a bottle of Juicy Juice, trying to decide if rosè is acceptable as juice and therefore an appropriate drink for that particular hour. Don't worry. It isn't.

What's Your Fantasy?

The one year anniversary of The Day My Life Fell Apart is in a few days, and I have a lot to say to you about that next week.

 

So I have this house I'm (still) trying to sell, and I moved a whole bunch of stuff to storage, which made the house more open. I sit in the house and I see so much potential now that there is so much liberty in the space. The kitchen could do with darker cabinets on the bottom, subway tile on the backsplash, open shelving above the buffet. I have two pieces in my living room I want to refinish and my sideboard in the dining room has been in need of paint for five years. The master bedroom curtains are heavy and oppressive for a space that already has no natural lighting. The master closet is shameful. The backyard fence needs work. The patio needs pavers.

 

Potential. We're just full of potential over here.